Too Much Socialization
I will be the first one to tell you that I’m a Web 2.0 whore. I love all the new social networking stuff. I have an account just about every where. I use just about all my accounts regularly. And I justify it because, hey, I’m an author, I promote my own books, and I have to be visible.
But it’s getting to be too much.
I have so many social applications, I’ve lost track. And a bunch of them do the exact same thing as the others. I mean, do I really need a MySpace page, a Facebook profile, a Bebo profile, a Yahoo!360 page… I’m sure I’m forgetting some. They all have the same stuff on them. A lot of the same people are on all of those apps and I’m “friends” with them everywhere. (It’s odd that I have more “friends” in my adult internet life than I’ve ever had, even in my biggest-lunch-group-on-the-playground phase in elementary school. It’s also odd that I don’t even really know most of them.)
But every time I think I’m going to simplify my life and delete a bunch of my social apps, I panic. And it’s not that I think people will miss me. They won’t. I’m just one more face in the crowd of friends who aren’t really friends. But I’m afraid I’ll miss them. If I delete my MySpace, how will I know when my one friend who doesn’t have any other social apps posts pictures of his new baby? If I delete my Facebook profile, how will I keep up with where everyone from high school works now? Gah!
So I freeze, and I don’t do anything, and I try to keep up with a billion and a half profiles, and then I join more social apps, like FriendFeed, on the pretenses of trying to simplify, when really all I’m doing is signing up for yet another profile.
Is this a clinical neurosis? Are you a social app whore? Have you trimmed your social apps successfully and, if so, HOW, for the love of god? Help me! I’m trapped in Web 2.0!










